Welcome to Families First Mediation

What is Family Mediation?

Family Mediation is a Non Court Dispute Resolution.

Family mediation helps you make decisions for your family without court involvement. If that sounds sensible, give me a call!

500+

Clients

22+

Years Experience

About Us

Resolving Family Conflicts with Care and Expertise

My name is Milly and I am a trained, independent, neutral third party that can support you to make childcare arrangements and/or make decisions about finances and/or property.

Children mediation

22+

Years Experience

milly wildish

What we offer

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Co-parenting arrangements

A co-parenting agreement outlines shared responsibilities, schedules, and decisions to ensure a stable, supportive environment for your child

Property and Finance

I can facilitate full financial disclosure so you can make informed decisions on separating your finances. I can create documents that can be turned into a consent order/legal financial agreement

£500 Government Voucher Scheme for family mediation

If a child is involved, you’ll get 2 free mediation hours. I’ll handle the application—quick approval!

Online Conflict Resolution

I work across England and Wales. I offer online mediation that fits around your schedule. Early morning and evening appointments are available at no extra cost.

MIAM

A Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting is a 60-minute one to one session to explore mediation, it's alternatives, and assess if it’s safe and suitable.

Family Mediation

Did you know mediation can happen in a variety of ways. You can have a face to face session at my comfortable office. You can have an online session. Or you can have shuttle mediation. This is where you would not see or hear the other person, but you would both be able to speak to me. I then facilitate the passing of information from one person to the other.

C100 Form

Sometimes mediation is not suitable, or one party does not wish to mediate. I can sign a C100 form so you can make an application to the family court.

Children Inclusive Mediation

Child inclusive mediation provides opportunities for children and young people to have their voices heard directly during the process of family mediation, to help them feel respected and listened to.

Meet Milly Wildish

My name is Milly and I am a family mediator registered with the Family Mediation Council (FMC) and Family Mediation Association.

This is important, as only mediators registered with the FMC can offer the government voucher scheme.

I have a background in police and social care as well as safeguarding in education settings. I have seen first hand the impact conflict has on children and families. I am passionate about helping families make co-parenting and financial arrangements that meet the needs of everyone, especially children, so that conflict does not persist and become the norm. My goal is to keep families out of the family court system.

Why Choose Us

Milly's Background

Safeguarding

I have worked in the safeguarding sector for over 22 years. I have worked as a child protection, sexual violence and domestic abuse specialist

Children

Keeping the best interests of children at the heart of the mediation is something that I am passionate about.

Experience

I continue to work and volunteer, alongside mediation, in organisations who engage with vulnerable children and adults. I provide training to any organisation about Family Mediation free of charge. My goal is to keep families out of the family courts.

Testimonial

What They Say


Milly was very understanding, patient and knowledgeable. The sessions have 100% had a positive impact on me. Would recommend to anyone that is going through a tough time.


Brilliant! Very professional informal and understanding, went out of her way to help us get childcare arrangements and a plan that works for both of us and always put the child first. Great communication via email and phone. Absolutely recommend to anyone who needs mediation


Milly made a stressful and sensitive situation much easier, would definitely recommend.

Office: 119 Shaftesbury Avenue, Southend, Essex, SS1 3AN, United Kingdom

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